If an argument last more than five minutes then more than likely both sides are wrong. This is a pretty safe edict to use throughout your life even if, you are one of the side arguing. When engage in argument everyone wants to be right no one likes being wrong but if we are proven wrong by other than ourselves will never learn anything, so there’s nothing wrong with being wrong.
There is something wrong with not learning something when you’re wrong. Life is short and long time is weird like that Einstein called it relative Doctor Who caught it Wimberley wobbly slimy Wimey thing. Whatever time is it is surely a commodity no one should waste and an argument that takes more than five minutes is a waste. Value your time
Peace
John3c